Michael V said:

ms spock said:

Michael V said:

I am actually mega, mega pissed off. I was excluded because of a medical condition. I am her oldest living relative. Her father (my son) is dead.

No wonder you are mega, mega pissed off!

Gosh that would be so painful. Being excluded because of a medical condition is a terrible thing to do to you, her oldest living relative. And with your son/her father being dead would make me mega, mega pissed off too. She also missed out on all your stories, and memories that all the other relatives would have potentially cherished.

I am so sorry that you went through this.

It’s a terrible thing to be excluded at any time but for swollen feet, for a medical condition. No wonder you are mega pissed off.

I can’t even bear to ask Mrs V about it.

That is so terribly sad.

To feel so much pain, you can’t even bear to ask Mrs V about it.

You bear the burden of not one but two dead sons. And his eldest daughter got married and she couldn’t make accommodations for your medical condition. I can’t imagine the complicated grief and emotions that you are going through.

I am sending my biggest hugs to you today. I am really feeling for you right now. No wonder you are mega, mega pissed.