kii said:

ms spock said:

kii said:

Aaargh…memories of Dearest Mother checking all her kids’s bums.
Once a month.
At night, when we were asleep.
Using a torch.

Sometimes I am amazed that I have mostly survived up until now.
I mean, I’m relatively sane…aren’t I?

It’s a miracle that you are still alive with all that you lived through.

I’m so often reminded here…I should just get over it, this stuff happened to all kids.

I’m always amazed about your resilience to the events in your childhood.

Yes, both of you have been through a lot of trauma and are dealing with it as best you can.

I can’t know what you went through, and/or how you have dealt with it, but I’ll try to help if possible.

Umm, I also have had problems. Sometimes it shows up as a post on here, but most of the time it is just me trying to make you all laugh at something. If that is all I can do, I’ll be happy and sleep well.