so mostly everything you do is to patronize calendars and clocks, some sort of temporal field, in service to, servitude.
it’s your mum’s fault perhaps, various desires inclined her to replicate, and hitchhiking on those was a desire to give something a birth day, and a name. You’ve got a name, you’ll never know if that was more or less important than giving you a cyclic calendar date, an anniversary.
it’s the state that merges the name with a date, giving the cyclic calendar legitimacy, and your existence I guess, though I can’t say which is first in importance. I can say calendars and clocks will outlive you.
there was a time when people had to wind clocks, the relationship was obvious. Way back further there were sundials, and it was obvious a shadow could usefully point. People even shared the pointing shadow.
today there are billions of calendars and clocks. Not much winding, and little is said of the pointing shadow.