so you’re in the highchair being spoon fed, baby food, association’s an ancient learning, a wide range of animal life responds so
you happen upon a lot of primitive grunts, recognizable by your primate mum. Humans can regress, part of the instincts of or nurturing emotional toolkit of humans. Probably a good example of territory the cognitive and emotional overlap
desire for food in response to hunger, and satiation, all useful to mum in helping turn grunts into adult words, perhaps with some more advanced ideas about trying not to spill food all over the floor, and later there will be encouragement to provide early warnings about shitting in your nappy
by 5yo, start of school years, you’re acquiring alphabet competency (the age varies greatly, really), couple years later you could be good at reading the clock time, not at all a bad introduction to the usefulness of numbers. You’ll need the skill for DLS, and observance
through age 5-12yo maybe, things change substantially. The more primitive associations (mechanisms) are subject to wider mediation, you’ll need want this to get that, internalize the shared instrumental desires, which in no small part involve approval of a group, or avoiding disapproval (same thing really)
you could at this age usefully develop instinct blindness and a desire deficit, the foundations of, it’d probably help with lifting you from animal ways, into culture
a first big step is alphabet competency, and reading the clock of course. You’ll know when to do things, and what words to string together in response to expectations, if any words are appropriate, which brings me to the proposition there are things outside that which are excluded. That language is not meant to be liberally inclusive, psychologically, of thought, it’s more about steering
which brings me to the idea that language, one of the important features is obliviation, that everyone employs it, and everyone is subject to it, and it’s possibly unavoidable given the imperfectness of any thinking, and using words from, or of, to
obliviation’s related displacement, as I see it, many thoughts are made less likely, perhaps even impossible by another thought, and then there’s the art of speaking and writing thoughts, which invariably involves some obliviation
so, i’m wondering if learning language comes with an accompanying tendency for obliviation