According to Professor Nicholas Epley, the way we perceive ourselves in our mind is not actually how we look in reality.
In his research, individuals’ faces were adjusted in 10% increments to appear more or less attractive, using features resembling those of conventionally attractive individuals. Participants were then asked to identify their own faces from a set of images.
Most of them chose the more attractive versions of their own faces more rapidly, particularly favoring faces enhanced by 20%.
The inclination for error also extends to the faces of our dear friends. But not to strangers.
For an extended abstract, see https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.1177/0146167208318601
I can’t help wondering if this is merely an artefact of remembering what we looked like when we much younger. What do you think?