When certain boys feel their masculinity is threatened, aggression ensues: study

It’s been long established that certain men become aggressive when they see their manhood as being threatened. A new study by a team of psychology researchers shows that adolescent boys may also respond aggressively when they believe their masculinity is under threat—especially boys growing up in environments with rigid, stereotypical gender norms.

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Tau.Neutrino said:

When certain boys feel their masculinity is threatened, aggression ensues: study

It’s been long established that certain men become aggressive when they see their manhood as being threatened. A new study by a team of psychology researchers shows that adolescent boys may also respond aggressively when they believe their masculinity is under threat—especially boys growing up in environments with rigid, stereotypical gender norms.

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yes, very obvious here among the old men of the forum. what to do about it though?

ChrispenEvan said:

Tau.Neutrino said:

When certain boys feel their masculinity is threatened, aggression ensues: study

It’s been long established that certain men become aggressive when they see their manhood as being threatened. A new study by a team of psychology researchers shows that adolescent boys may also respond aggressively when they believe their masculinity is under threat—especially boys growing up in environments with rigid, stereotypical gender norms.

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yes, very obvious here among the old men of the forum. what to do about it though?

Speaking for yourself I see.

Can emotion intelligence / emotional control help ease that issue?

Its amusing in a sad way that it takes far more courage and strength to overcome emotional problems most of the time than physical ones.
You are only half a man if you don’t

Tau.Neutrino said:

Can emotion intelligence / emotional control help ease that issue?

Yeah.
Education is the greatest asset.

Cymek said:

Its amusing in a sad way that it takes far more courage and strength to overcome emotional problems most of the time than physical ones.
You are only half a man if you don’t

Look these issues are far more complicated because we each have our own issues that may have or not have anything to do with masculinitty issues.

Cymek said:

Its amusing in a sad way that it takes far more courage and strength to overcome emotional problems most of the time than physical ones.
You are only half a man if you don’t

There’s a lot of people who cannot control their emotions which leads to emotional violence which then leads onto physical violence:

Some people can become emotionally violent but not physically violent.

Others can get emotionally violent then it takes more time to get physically violent.

Then others who get emotionally violent and physically violent simultaneously.

Short fuses vs long fuses.

People who are emotionally intelligent are less likely to become emotionally violent.

Yes, your right, men / women who cannot control their emotions lack the strength to do so.

Tau.Neutrino said:

Cymek said:

Its amusing in a sad way that it takes far more courage and strength to overcome emotional problems most of the time than physical ones.
You are only half a man if you don’t

There’s a lot of people who cannot control their emotions which leads to emotional violence which then leads onto physical violence:

Some people can become emotionally violent but not physically violent.

Others can get emotionally violent then it takes more time to get physically violent.

Then others who get emotionally violent and physically violent simultaneously.

Short fuses vs long fuses.

People who are emotionally intelligent are less likely to become emotionally violent.

Yes, your right, men / women who cannot control their emotions lack the strength to do so.

They have the strength. It is more that they are applying that to something else.

Tau.Neutrino said:

Cymek said:

Its amusing in a sad way that it takes far more courage and strength to overcome emotional problems most of the time than physical ones.
You are only half a man if you don’t

There’s a lot of people who cannot control their emotions which leads to emotional violence which then leads onto physical violence:

Some people can become emotionally violent but not physically violent.

Others can get emotionally violent then it takes more time to get physically violent.

Then others who get emotionally violent and physically violent simultaneously.

Short fuses vs long fuses.

People who are emotionally intelligent are less likely to become emotionally violent.

Yes, your right, men / women who cannot control their emotions lack the strength to do so.

How can 16 years of education fix that?

Tau.Neutrino said:

Tau.Neutrino said:

Cymek said:

Its amusing in a sad way that it takes far more courage and strength to overcome emotional problems most of the time than physical ones.
You are only half a man if you don’t

There’s a lot of people who cannot control their emotions which leads to emotional violence which then leads onto physical violence:

Some people can become emotionally violent but not physically violent.

Others can get emotionally violent then it takes more time to get physically violent.

Then others who get emotionally violent and physically violent simultaneously.

Short fuses vs long fuses.

People who are emotionally intelligent are less likely to become emotionally violent.

Yes, your right, men / women who cannot control their emotions lack the strength to do so.

How can 16 years of education fix that?

It starts with educating the parents, before they get to be parents..

roughbarked said:

Tau.Neutrino said:

Tau.Neutrino said:

There’s a lot of people who cannot control their emotions which leads to emotional violence which then leads onto physical violence:

Some people can become emotionally violent but not physically violent.

Others can get emotionally violent then it takes more time to get physically violent.

Then others who get emotionally violent and physically violent simultaneously.

Short fuses vs long fuses.

People who are emotionally intelligent are less likely to become emotionally violent.

Yes, your right, men / women who cannot control their emotions lack the strength to do so.

How can 16 years of education fix that?

It starts with educating the parents, before they get to be parents..

Aye.

Witty Rejoinder said:

roughbarked said:

Tau.Neutrino said:

How can 16 years of education fix that?

It starts with educating the parents, before they get to be parents..

Aye.

Most of the serial DV perpetrators are possible too far down the track to be helped when they are adults.
Can people really change without one hell of an effort.

Cymek said:

Witty Rejoinder said:

roughbarked said:

It starts with educating the parents, before they get to be parents..

Aye.

Most of the serial DV perpetrators are possible too far down the track to be helped when they are adults.
Can people really change without one hell of an effort.

Fuck, everything is an effort. didn’t joule teach you anyerg?

Witty Rejoinder said:

roughbarked said:

Tau.Neutrino said:

How can 16 years of education fix that?

It starts with educating the parents, before they get to be parents..

Aye.

roughbarked said:

Cymek said:

Witty Rejoinder said:

Aye.

Most of the serial DV perpetrators are possible too far down the track to be helped when they are adults.
Can people really change without one hell of an effort.

Fuck, everything is an effort. didn’t joule teach you anyerg?

That is true yes.
I wonder though that behaviours once learnt and reinforced by action are very hard to change.

captain_spalding said:

Witty Rejoinder said:

roughbarked said:

It starts with educating the parents, before they get to be parents..

Aye.

He would be a good example (so it seems anyway) of a decent man and human

Cymek said:

roughbarked said:

Cymek said:

Most of the serial DV perpetrators are possible too far down the track to be helped when they are adults.
Can people really change without one hell of an effort.

Fuck, everything is an effort. didn’t joule teach you anyerg?

That is true yes.
I wonder though that behaviours once learnt and reinforced by action are very hard to change.

As I inferred, it isn’t only hard. It is fucking difficult.
However, it can be done and it doesn’t require the 12 steps that all mention God.

Cymek said:

captain_spalding said:

Witty Rejoinder said:

Aye.

He would be a good example (so it seems anyway) of a decent man and human

An example, is ample.

Cymek said:

captain_spalding said:

Witty Rejoinder said:

Aye.

He would be a good example (so it seems anyway) of a decent man and human

yes, only seen good things about him. and considering all that he has experienced.

Cymek said:

Witty Rejoinder said:

roughbarked said:

It starts with educating the parents, before they get to be parents..

Aye.

Most of the serial DV perpetrators are possible too far down the track to be helped when they are adults.
Can people really change without one hell of an effort.

If they had emotional strength and emotional intelligence at a younger age it might be a different story.

Cymek said:

captain_spalding said:

Witty Rejoinder said:

Aye.

He would be a good example (so it seems anyway) of a decent man and human

He is a great role model. He appears to have his observation logic and ethics in good order.

Witty Rejoinder said:

roughbarked said:

Tau.Neutrino said:

How can 16 years of education fix that?

It starts with educating the parents, before they get to be parents..

Aye.

I like to think that people can, and often do, change over time. It’s never too late to start being a good human and often major life changing events (like becoming a parent) can be a catalyst for change.

That is, of course, just my opinion.

diddly-squat said:

Witty Rejoinder said:

roughbarked said:

It starts with educating the parents, before they get to be parents..

Aye.

I like to think that people can, and often do, change over time. It’s never too late to start being a good human and often major life changing events (like becoming a parent) can be a catalyst for change.

That is, of course, just my opinion.

I’ve seen it happen on more than the one occasion.

ChrispenEvan said:

Tau.Neutrino said:

When certain boys feel their masculinity is threatened, aggression ensues: study

It’s been long established that certain men become aggressive when they see their manhood as being threatened. A new study by a team of psychology researchers shows that adolescent boys may also respond aggressively when they believe their masculinity is under threat—especially boys growing up in environments with rigid, stereotypical gender norms.

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yes, very obvious here among the old men of the forum. what to do about it though?

Wait for the dinosaurs to die out.

;)

buffy said:

ChrispenEvan said:

Tau.Neutrino said:

When certain boys feel their masculinity is threatened, aggression ensues: study

It’s been long established that certain men become aggressive when they see their manhood as being threatened. A new study by a team of psychology researchers shows that adolescent boys may also respond aggressively when they believe their masculinity is under threat—especially boys growing up in environments with rigid, stereotypical gender norms.

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yes, very obvious here among the old men of the forum. what to do about it though?

Wait for the dinosaurs to die out.

;)

Females often live longer than males.

buffy said:

ChrispenEvan said:

Tau.Neutrino said:

When certain boys feel their masculinity is threatened, aggression ensues: study

It’s been long established that certain men become aggressive when they see their manhood as being threatened. A new study by a team of psychology researchers shows that adolescent boys may also respond aggressively when they believe their masculinity is under threat—especially boys growing up in environments with rigid, stereotypical gender norms.

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yes, very obvious here among the old men of the forum. what to do about it though?

Wait for the dinosaurs to die out.

;)

Nobody here except us chickens.

ChrispenEvan said:

buffy said:

ChrispenEvan said:

yes, very obvious here among the old men of the forum. what to do about it though?

Wait for the dinosaurs to die out.

;)

Nobody here except us chickens.

Tasmanian Supreme Court judge Gregory Geason is alleged to have pushed a woman into a mantelpiece, causing bruising and concussion. His legal counsel says Justice Geason’s defence relies on questioning the woman’s “sobriety” and her “ability to recall things”.
10m ago
Link

roughbarked said:

ChrispenEvan said:

buffy said:

Wait for the dinosaurs to die out.

;)

Nobody here except us chickens.

Tasmanian Supreme Court judge Gregory Geason is alleged to have pushed a woman into a mantelpiece, causing bruising and concussion. His legal counsel says Justice Geason’s defence relies on questioning the woman’s “sobriety” and her “ability to recall things”.
10m ago
Link

Woman charged with murder

roughbarked said:

roughbarked said:

ChrispenEvan said:

Nobody here except us chickens.

Tasmanian Supreme Court judge Gregory Geason is alleged to have pushed a woman into a mantelpiece, causing bruising and concussion. His legal counsel says Justice Geason’s defence relies on questioning the woman’s “sobriety” and her “ability to recall things”.
10m ago
Link

Woman charged with murder

No kii. the two links are not related.

diddly-squat said:

Witty Rejoinder said:

roughbarked said:

It starts with educating the parents, before they get to be parents..

Aye.

I like to think that people can, and often do, change over time. It’s never too late to start being a good human and often major life changing events (like becoming a parent) can be a catalyst for change.

That is, of course, just my opinion.

you cockeyed optimist you…

castrate them