Date: 12/05/2013 12:47:16
From: Bubblecar
ID: 309620
Subject: Toilets Dilemma
What say HFers? Should she use the boys’ toilets, the girls’ toilets or the disabled toilets?
Mother’s fight for transgender child who was born a boy to live as a girl
http://www.couriermail.com.au/news/queensland/mothers-fight-for-transgender-child-who-was-born-a-boy-to-live-as-a-girl/story-e6freoof-1226639929796
Date: 12/05/2013 12:52:44
From: sibeen
ID: 309622
Subject: re: Toilets Dilemma
>the disabled toilets?
I’d actually agree with the school’s take on the matter and think that use of the disabled toilet was a fair compromise.
Date: 12/05/2013 13:10:21
From: Bubblecar
ID: 309640
Subject: re: Toilets Dilemma
If I was her I’d prefer the disabled toilet, ‘cos they’re usually more spacious and private.
Date: 12/05/2013 13:12:10
From: wookiemeister
ID: 309642
Subject: re: Toilets Dilemma
Bubblecar said:
If I was her I’d prefer the disabled toilet, ‘cos they’re usually more spacious and private.
yeah I do that too
the normal toilets are normally filthy and have weirdoes hanging around, the disabled toilets are often the cleanest and most spacious
Date: 12/05/2013 13:14:12
From: Bubblecar
ID: 309643
Subject: re: Toilets Dilemma
It’s attracting a lot more heated debate on ninemsn:
http://news.ninemsn.com.au/national/2013/05/12/08/04/queensland-mum-fights-for-transgender-girls-rights
Date: 12/05/2013 13:15:46
From: Angus Prune
ID: 309644
Subject: re: Toilets Dilemma
Bubblecar said:
It’s attracting a lot more heated debate on ninemsn:
http://news.ninemsn.com.au/national/2013/05/12/08/04/queensland-mum-fights-for-transgender-girls-rights
If she identifies as a girl and lives as a girl, then she should be allowed to use the girls’ loo.
Date: 12/05/2013 13:16:18
From: wookiemeister
ID: 309646
Subject: re: Toilets Dilemma
I could apply as minister of defence for this new republic
I’m thinking cheap AKs with a decent scope and a standing army of 50,000 including children
you could make a big training area and train your army
you’d need to build some decent arms factories and see if you could get the Australian government to fund them.
each citizen would be trained from birth to be in the army
i’d have big parades with lots of flags marching down the main roads of the area complaining about being discriminated against
Date: 12/05/2013 13:16:38
From: Bubblecar
ID: 309647
Subject: re: Toilets Dilemma
>If she identifies as a girl and lives as a girl, then she should be allowed to use the girls’ loo.
I suspect the school is just trying to avoid objections from moronic parents.
Date: 12/05/2013 13:17:05
From: wookiemeister
ID: 309648
Subject: re: Toilets Dilemma
we could always spend 43 billion putting in transgender toilets I guess with ultrafast internet access
Date: 12/05/2013 13:23:15
From: morrie
ID: 309653
Subject: re: Toilets Dilemma
wookiemeister said:
we could always spend 43 billion putting in transgender toilets I guess with ultrafast internet access
We are already well on the way to this in Perth. Multifunctional electronic toilets that talk you though the process and clean themselves out automatically. Internet access would be a snap.
Date: 12/05/2013 13:24:53
From: wookiemeister
ID: 309656
Subject: re: Toilets Dilemma
morrie said:
wookiemeister said:
we could always spend 43 billion putting in transgender toilets I guess with ultrafast internet access
We are already well on the way to this in Perth. Multifunctional electronic toilets that talk you though the process and clean themselves out automatically. Internet access would be a snap.
“you may now have a shit”
“could we interest you in a home loan whilst on the toilet?”
Date: 12/05/2013 13:25:41
From: Bubblecar
ID: 309657
Subject: re: Toilets Dilemma
>Multifunctional electronic toilets that talk you though the process
Hmm, the day I need talking through the process will be the day I throw in the towel, I think.
Date: 12/05/2013 13:28:48
From: wookiemeister
ID: 309658
Subject: re: Toilets Dilemma
wookiemeister said:
morrie said:
wookiemeister said:
we could always spend 43 billion putting in transgender toilets I guess with ultrafast internet access
We are already well on the way to this in Perth. Multifunctional electronic toilets that talk you though the process and clean themselves out automatically. Internet access would be a snap.
“you may now have a shit”
“could we interest you in a home loan whilst on the toilet?”
the bowelmaster 2000 is a fully integrated multiplatform synergised asset management system
notice the vaccum cup – this should not be allowed near the genitals under any circumstances
Date: 12/05/2013 13:30:58
From: wookiemeister
ID: 309659
Subject: re: Toilets Dilemma
introducing the bowelmaster 2000 delux – now know as
the deathmaster

Date: 12/05/2013 13:33:00
From: wookiemeister
ID: 309660
Subject: re: Toilets Dilemma
friendly toilet staff

Date: 12/05/2013 16:43:02
From: Divine Angel
ID: 309708
Subject: re: Toilets Dilemma
Let her use the female toilets. She wants to live as a girl, let her be treated as one.
Date: 12/05/2013 17:00:53
From: Bubblecar
ID: 309715
Subject: re: Toilets Dilemma
Divine Angel said:
Let her use the female toilets. She wants to live as a girl, let her be treated as one.
I agree, but some people seem to think a compromise is called for, so here’s one: If she needs a wee, she can use the boys’ loo, if she needs a poo, she can use the girls’ loo, if she needs to be sick, she can use the disabled loo.
Date: 12/05/2013 17:02:31
From: Divine Angel
ID: 309717
Subject: re: Toilets Dilemma
I suppose identifying with both sexes has advantages: use whichever loo is closest when you need to go :)
Date: 12/05/2013 17:37:22
From: furious
ID: 309731
Subject: re: Toilets Dilemma
Girls seem to prefer using the boys toilets because the lines are usually shorter so perhaps this one ought to take advantage of the grey area. Stall doors lock, so what’s the difference?
Date: 13/05/2013 12:16:21
From: bob(from black rock)
ID: 310120
Subject: re: Toilets Dilemma
furious said:
Girls seem to prefer using the boys toilets because the lines are usually shorter so perhaps this one ought to take advantage of the grey area. Stall doors lock, so what’s the difference?
Take the next step, teach girls to piss against a vertical surface like boys do?
Date: 13/05/2013 12:23:25
From: diddly-squat
ID: 310122
Subject: re: Toilets Dilemma
hijack
what is it “the mens toilet” and not “the men’s toilet”
Date: 13/05/2013 12:25:59
From: roughbarked
ID: 310125
Subject: re: Toilets Dilemma
diddly-squat said:
hijack
what is it “the mens toilet” and not “the men’s toilet”
The men don’t own it.
Date: 13/05/2013 12:29:14
From: roughbarked
ID: 310128
Subject: re: Toilets Dilemma
Looked at the left hand column saw this .. poignant
Toilets Dilemma
diddly-squat
Date: 13/05/2013 12:36:34
From: The Rev Dodgson
ID: 310129
Subject: re: Toilets Dilemma
roughbarked said:
diddly-squat said:
hijack
what is it “the mens toilet” and not “the men’s toilet”
The men don’t own it.
But nonetheless it is a toilet provided for the benefit of men.
But OTOH “lady’s toilet” gets only 25,000 hits (and a query as to whether you really meant ladies toilet), and “ladies toilet” gets far more.
Date: 13/05/2013 12:37:20
From: Carmen_Sandiego
ID: 310130
Subject: re: Toilets Dilemma
diddly-squat said:
hijack
what is it “the mens toilet” and not “the men’s toilet”
I assumed it was one of those things. “Ladies” go through that door, “mens” go throw the other.
Date: 13/05/2013 12:48:12
From: The Rev Dodgson
ID: 310133
Subject: re: Toilets Dilemma
The Rev Dodgson said:
But OTOH “lady’s toilet” gets only 25,000 hits (and a query as to whether you really meant ladies toilet), and “ladies toilet” gets far more.
But OTOOH, the correct equivalent for “men’s toilet” is “ladies’ toilet”, and about half the hits on “ladies toilet” are actually “ladies’ toilet”.
Can you get Google to do an exact exact match?
Date: 13/05/2013 13:29:37
From: Divine Angel
ID: 310137
Subject: re: Toilets Dilemma
“The loo”
Problem solvered.
Date: 13/05/2013 13:35:58
From: Carmen_Sandiego
ID: 310140
Subject: re: Toilets Dilemma
Date: 13/05/2013 13:39:21
From: roughbarked
ID: 310142
Subject: re: Toilets Dilemma
Carmen_Sandiego said:
Mangoes & No Mangoes.
sweet.
Date: 13/05/2013 13:39:47
From: poikilotherm
ID: 310143
Subject: re: Toilets Dilemma
roughbarked said:
Carmen_Sandiego said:
Mangoes & No Mangoes.
sweet.
Salty.
Date: 13/05/2013 13:47:22
From: Divine Angel
ID: 310144
Subject: re: Toilets Dilemma
Date: 13/05/2013 14:03:35
From: diddly-squat
ID: 310145
Subject: re: Toilets Dilemma
where’s steve when you need him?
Date: 13/05/2013 14:04:37
From: poikilotherm
ID: 310146
Subject: re: Toilets Dilemma
Date: 13/05/2013 14:12:54
From: CrazyNeutrino
ID: 310149
Subject: re: Toilets Dilemma
Date: 13/05/2013 14:13:11
From: CrazyNeutrino
ID: 310150
Subject: re: Toilets Dilemma
Date: 13/05/2013 14:13:56
From: CrazyNeutrino
ID: 310151
Subject: re: Toilets Dilemma
Date: 13/05/2013 14:14:51
From: CrazyNeutrino
ID: 310152
Subject: re: Toilets Dilemma
Date: 13/05/2013 14:16:04
From: Divine Angel
ID: 310153
Subject: re: Toilets Dilemma
We seem to have moved on from mangoes and dunnies :)
Date: 13/05/2013 14:16:22
From: poikilotherm
ID: 310154
Subject: re: Toilets Dilemma
CrazyNeutrino said:
hailing
There’s something wrong with your mangoes if they are hailing…
Date: 13/05/2013 14:17:39
From: Divine Angel
ID: 310155
Subject: re: Toilets Dilemma
You’re not eating enough mangoes if your poo resembles hail.
Date: 13/05/2013 14:18:08
From: diddly-squat
ID: 310156
Subject: re: Toilets Dilemma
poikilotherm said:
CrazyNeutrino said:
hailing
There’s something wrong with your mangoes if they are hailing…
that, or they are very clever mangos
Date: 13/05/2013 14:18:10
From: diddly-squat
ID: 310157
Subject: re: Toilets Dilemma
poikilotherm said:
CrazyNeutrino said:
hailing
There’s something wrong with your mangoes if they are hailing…
that, or they are very clever mangoes
Date: 13/05/2013 14:23:23
From: CrazyNeutrino
ID: 310161
Subject: re: Toilets Dilemma
once upon a time
50,000 years ago
when everyone was nude
and just peed anywhere, anytime
no one made a fuss
no one cared about rules
no one cared about litigation
nature didn’t care about discrimination
or putting up signs saying mangoes and bananas
those people were real people
Date: 13/05/2013 14:25:29
From: CrazyNeutrino
ID: 310162
Subject: re: Toilets Dilemma
then someone said cover up those bits
its never been the same since then
:(
Date: 13/05/2013 14:26:30
From: Divine Angel
ID: 310163
Subject: re: Toilets Dilemma
CrazyNeutrino said:
then someone said cover up those bits
its never been the same since then
:(
Too right. Men didn’t hvae fancy cars to compensate *wiggles pinky *
Date: 13/05/2013 14:26:58
From: poikilotherm
ID: 310164
Subject: re: Toilets Dilemma
Divine Angel said:
CrazyNeutrino said:
then someone said cover up those bits
its never been the same since then
:(
Too right. Men didn’t hvae fancy cars to compensate *wiggles pinky *
We had big clubs instead.
Date: 13/05/2013 14:30:26
From: CrazyNeutrino
ID: 310168
Subject: re: Toilets Dilemma
I bet it was those conservatives,
it didn’t bother the lefties, they didn’t worry about it
damn conservatives
Date: 13/05/2013 15:28:57
From: CrazyNeutrino
ID: 310196
Subject: re: Toilets Dilemma
well schools better have a separate toilets for
transgender males
transgender females
bisexual females
bisexual males
homosexual females
homosexual males
Fixed
Date: 13/05/2013 15:31:37
From: CrazyNeutrino
ID: 310197
Subject: re: Toilets Dilemma
Did channel 9 worry about them?
Date: 14/05/2013 17:04:47
From: podzol
ID: 310740
Subject: re: Toilets Dilemma
It shouldn’t be a dilemma (in a perfect world). If she is now accepted by the school as a girl (wears girls uniform, has girls name) then she should be able to use the girls toilet.
The current female students should have some guidance relating to the fact that Jane is now using the girls toilet, and let them know who they can speak to if they have any concerns. Kids are pretty accepting of many different things, generally.
I would also allow Jane to use the disabled toilet if she needs to and make sure teachers keep an eye on the situation. Maybe allow Jane to go before recess/lunch so it doesn’t become a “big thing”.
At a remote mine site years ago there was a transgender guy>girl and the females didn’t want them in the female change room, and I think there was a universal access change room created (or similar). I am assuming the girls at the school aren’t against the idea, especially as the cubicles would have doors.