>They’re affectionate company but can be very demanding of time and attention. With some dogs it’s like being lumbered with a retarded child you have to look after all the time. I’m too self-centred to be a dog man.
Sympathies to your parents, or late parents whatever the situation is or were. Being lighthearted there, is all :).
And no, not all dogs are demanding. My little fella is very effactionate but not super social, well not nitro supercharged ‘social’, undemanding by any standard. The previous dog were a border collie, and in restrospect if I could go back i’d probably encourage of self, kids etc not to elicit (patterned) excesssive responsiveness to humans. The dog had epilepsy also, so tended to fit more when tired, from maybe two years of age.
In a way the old idea you may hear from say a farmer or truck driver that kids (playing with) mess working dogs up is correct, but i’d add qualifications to that.
I think dogs can comfortably tend in energy conservation mode a lot, still of course need adequate exercise, but tend to let you know as they want and require it.
I think it a mistake to upregulate sociability in dogs, to tend responsivenesss for human ‘entertainment’. But that is what humans can be like, too much is about entertainment.
Point being that if you impose on a dog with expectations of great responsiveness, they may be more demanding of their friend, and as it happens they may not naturally be supercharged responsive anyway, and I ask when is a creature happiest, or more to the point what provides for the greatest quality time involving an absence of discontent.