Date: 4/05/2014 16:32:44
From: CrazyNeutrino
ID: 526835
Subject: Sending and receiving sexually explicit messages

Sending and receiving sexually explicit messages a normal part of teenage relationships, survey finds

A survey of Australian high school students has found that sending and receiving sexually explicit images and messages is a normal part of most teenage relationships.

La Trobe university researchers interviewed more than 2,000 16 to 18-year-old students across the country as part of a study commissioned by the Federal Government.

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Date: 4/05/2014 16:33:19
From: CrazyNeutrino
ID: 526836
Subject: re: Sending and receiving sexually explicit messages

Sounds like society attempting to control nature

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Date: 4/05/2014 16:35:17
From: captain_spalding
ID: 526837
Subject: re: Sending and receiving sexually explicit messages

CrazyNeutrino said:


Sounds like society attempting to control nature

That’s not a bad definition of religion.

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Date: 4/05/2014 16:38:39
From: CrazyNeutrino
ID: 526838
Subject: re: Sending and receiving sexually explicit messages

The Americans are trying to make sexting illegal

I believe that two young people communicating should be free to communicate

these sort of laws are really intruding into young peoples lives and personal space

An example of conservative laws going too far violating young people’s rights

Laws cannot control human nature on that level

Teens will ignore it

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Date: 4/05/2014 16:39:36
From: CrazyNeutrino
ID: 526839
Subject: re: Sending and receiving sexually explicit messages

captain_spalding said:


CrazyNeutrino said:

Sounds like society attempting to control nature

That’s not a bad definition of religion.

Yes, your right, it does.

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Date: 4/05/2014 16:44:15
From: ChrispenEvan
ID: 526845
Subject: re: Sending and receiving sexually explicit messages

An example of conservative laws going too far violating young people’s rights

what rights are these and where can i find them?

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Date: 4/05/2014 16:46:49
From: captain_spalding
ID: 526849
Subject: re: Sending and receiving sexually explicit messages

CrazyNeutrino said:

An example of conservative laws going too far violating young people’s rights


I heartily agree.

Young women should have the right to send me all the sexually-oriented texts they wish.

I would support any campaign that promulgated that right.

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Date: 4/05/2014 16:59:35
From: rumpole
ID: 526858
Subject: re: Sending and receiving sexually explicit messages

Maybe teens should be required to put condoms over their phones while sexting

:)

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Date: 4/05/2014 17:06:27
From: Bubblecar
ID: 526864
Subject: re: Sending and receiving sexually explicit messages

>An example of conservative laws going too far violating young people’s rights

Isn’t it just the normal law prohibiting pornographic images of people under 18?

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Date: 4/05/2014 17:54:03
From: CrazyNeutrino
ID: 526892
Subject: re: Sending and receiving sexually explicit messages

ChrispenEvan said:


An example of conservative laws going too far violating young people’s rights

what rights are these and where can i find them?

Thats a good question

this is an example of technology intermixing with young human behavior which really is part of natural communication between two people

I guess the United Nations would be a good place to start looking

The Universal Declaration of Human Rights

back to your question

We have parliaments state and federal that make laws every year but I dont receive any laws or updates in the mail about them

I receive no law books, no law guides, just bits and pieces over the media and internet

Not good enough really

We elect people to go into parliament to make laws (and most of these candidates that we vote for have no legal training, only a few do) and then we dont really see these laws that they make

other Human Rights Websites

Australian Human Rights Commission
Human Rights Wikipedia Article
United Nations: What are human rights?
ABC Human Rights Article
Human Rights Commission Victoria
Human Rights Google Search
United Nations

What you can do is educate young people and the best one can hope for

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Date: 4/05/2014 18:43:48
From: CrazyNeutrino
ID: 526935
Subject: re: Sending and receiving sexually explicit messages

Bubblecar said:


>An example of conservative laws going too far violating young people’s rights

Isn’t it just the normal law prohibiting pornographic images of people under 18?

I’m not sure, I know some American states are prosecuting underage teens for sexting one another with text, or text and /or underage teen nudity images, there is a difference between that and underage teens handing adult pornographic images

If someone can clarify it, please do

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Date: 4/05/2014 18:46:02
From: wookiemeister
ID: 526937
Subject: re: Sending and receiving sexually explicit messages

CrazyNeutrino said:


Bubblecar said:

>An example of conservative laws going too far violating young people’s rights

Isn’t it just the normal law prohibiting pornographic images of people under 18?

I’m not sure, I know some American states are prosecuting underage teens for sexting one another with text, or text and /or underage teen nudity images, there is a difference between that and underage teens handing adult pornographic images

If someone can clarify it, please do


the yanks are mad

the real problem is that they were all the outcasts of Britain, the religious nutters unwanted by the state that was glad to see the back of them – the hence the mad laws and decrees.

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Date: 4/05/2014 18:54:25
From: Witty Rejoinder
ID: 526947
Subject: re: Sending and receiving sexually explicit messages

I wonder if Wookie is descendant from a long line of nutters?

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Date: 4/05/2014 18:55:11
From: CrazyNeutrino
ID: 526950
Subject: re: Sending and receiving sexually explicit messages

wookiemeister said:


CrazyNeutrino said:

Bubblecar said:

>An example of conservative laws going too far violating young people’s rights

Isn’t it just the normal law prohibiting pornographic images of people under 18?

I’m not sure, I know some American states are prosecuting underage teens for sexting one another with text, or text and /or underage teen nudity images, there is a difference between that and underage teens handing adult pornographic images

If someone can clarify it, please do


the yanks are mad

the real problem is that they were all the outcasts of Britain, the religious nutters unwanted by the state that was glad to see the back of them – the hence the mad laws and decrees.

Correct, a lot of Yanks are mad.

:)

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Date: 4/05/2014 18:57:31
From: wookiemeister
ID: 526952
Subject: re: Sending and receiving sexually explicit messages

Witty Rejoinder said:


I wonder if Wookie is descendant from a long line of nutters?

it wouldn’t surprise me

I leave crazy to the professionals

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Date: 4/05/2014 18:58:31
From: wookiemeister
ID: 526953
Subject: re: Sending and receiving sexually explicit messages

CrazyNeutrino said:


wookiemeister said:

CrazyNeutrino said:

I’m not sure, I know some American states are prosecuting underage teens for sexting one another with text, or text and /or underage teen nudity images, there is a difference between that and underage teens handing adult pornographic images

If someone can clarify it, please do


the yanks are mad

the real problem is that they were all the outcasts of Britain, the religious nutters unwanted by the state that was glad to see the back of them – the hence the mad laws and decrees.

Correct, a lot of Yanks are mad.

:)


oh don’t get me wrong, the ones you might meet overseas are very amusing fellows, how this translates to their foreign policy I have never been able to fathom

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Date: 4/05/2014 19:01:40
From: ChrispenEvan
ID: 526955
Subject: re: Sending and receiving sexually explicit messages

child porn is child porn no matter what age the sender. the laws or proposed laws or measures are to protect vulnerable people from being exploited.kids are notorious for not being outcome aware. who knows whose hands some of these images end up in.

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Date: 4/05/2014 19:04:54
From: Michael V
ID: 526957
Subject: re: Sending and receiving sexually explicit messages

wookiemeister said:


CrazyNeutrino said:

wookiemeister said:

the yanks are mad

the real problem is that they were all the outcasts of Britain, the religious nutters unwanted by the state that was glad to see the back of them – the hence the mad laws and decrees.

Correct, a lot of Yanks are mad.

:)


oh don’t get me wrong, the ones you might meet overseas are very amusing fellows, how this translates to their foreign policy I have never been able to fathom

How it translates is this: The USA votes only every four years. It is non-compulsory voting. Foreign policy (or indeed any other political policy) is not discussed on TV every day like it is here. Add into that mix the all-ages, whole-of-life indoctrination of “land of the free”, flag saluting etc and that’s what you get.

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Date: 4/05/2014 19:06:04
From: Michael V
ID: 526959
Subject: re: Sending and receiving sexually explicit messages

Sorry: should’ve been in chat.

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Date: 4/05/2014 19:15:24
From: wookiemeister
ID: 526965
Subject: re: Sending and receiving sexually explicit messages

ChrispenEvan said:


child porn is child porn no matter what age the sender. the laws or proposed laws or measures are to protect vulnerable people from being exploited.kids are notorious for not being outcome aware. who knows whose hands some of these images end up in.

so we are going to throw kids into gaols with sex offenders because they sent someone a picture of themselves?

don’t laugh , this would be the exact way things would happen

the roman catholic church has been fondling kids for years and got away with it and we are going after some easy target

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Date: 4/05/2014 19:15:58
From: wookiemeister
ID: 526966
Subject: re: Sending and receiving sexually explicit messages

Michael V said:


wookiemeister said:

CrazyNeutrino said:

Correct, a lot of Yanks are mad.

:)


oh don’t get me wrong, the ones you might meet overseas are very amusing fellows, how this translates to their foreign policy I have never been able to fathom

How it translates is this: The USA votes only every four years. It is non-compulsory voting. Foreign policy (or indeed any other political policy) is not discussed on TV every day like it is here. Add into that mix the all-ages, whole-of-life indoctrination of “land of the free”, flag saluting etc and that’s what you get.

don’t forget the guns

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Date: 4/05/2014 19:17:34
From: ChrispenEvan
ID: 526967
Subject: re: Sending and receiving sexually explicit messages

so we are going to throw kids into gaols with sex offenders because they sent someone a picture of themselves?

slippery slope logical fallacy

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Date: 4/05/2014 19:19:23
From: ChrispenEvan
ID: 526968
Subject: re: Sending and receiving sexually explicit messages

slippery slope
You said that if we allow A to happen, then Z will eventually happen too, therefore A should not happen.

The problem with this reasoning is that it avoids engaging with the issue at hand, and instead shifts attention to extreme hypotheticals. Because no proof is presented to show that such extreme hypotheticals will in fact occur, this fallacy has the form of an appeal to emotion fallacy by leveraging fear. In effect the argument at hand is unfairly tainted by unsubstantiated conjecture.

Example: Colin Closet asserts that if we allow same-sex couples to marry, then the next thing we know we’ll be allowing people to marry their parents, their cars and even monkeys.

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Date: 4/05/2014 19:19:23
From: Witty Rejoinder
ID: 526969
Subject: re: Sending and receiving sexually explicit messages

wookiemeister said:

so we are going to throw kids into gaols with sex offenders because they sent someone a picture of themselves?

You can get charged for possession but not production. There has been talk of changing the law so that juveniles are treated differently to mature aged offenders.

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Date: 4/05/2014 19:23:37
From: wookiemeister
ID: 526971
Subject: re: Sending and receiving sexually explicit messages

ChrispenEvan said:


so we are going to throw kids into gaols with sex offenders because they sent someone a picture of themselves?

slippery slope logical fallacy


this is management think

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Date: 4/05/2014 19:24:59
From: wookiemeister
ID: 526972
Subject: re: Sending and receiving sexually explicit messages

children are an easy target

you bring in some law on people that have no voting rights without a skerrick of common sense in the mix

how about we keep the kiddy fiddlers LOCKED UP instead?

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Date: 4/05/2014 19:25:20
From: Michael V
ID: 526974
Subject: re: Sending and receiving sexually explicit messages

wookiemeister said:


ChrispenEvan said:

so we are going to throw kids into gaols with sex offenders because they sent someone a picture of themselves?

slippery slope logical fallacy


this is management think

What?

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Date: 4/05/2014 19:25:56
From: poikilotherm
ID: 526975
Subject: re: Sending and receiving sexually explicit messages

Michael V said:


wookiemeister said:

ChrispenEvan said:

so we are going to throw kids into gaols with sex offenders because they sent someone a picture of themselves?

slippery slope logical fallacy


this is management think

What?

It’s Wak World remember…

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Date: 4/05/2014 19:26:04
From: ChrispenEvan
ID: 526976
Subject: re: Sending and receiving sexually explicit messages

this is management think

strawman logical fallacy.

strawman
You misrepresented someone’s argument to make it easier to attack.

By exaggerating, misrepresenting, or just completely fabricating someone’s argument, it’s much easier to present your own position as being reasonable, but this kind of dishonesty serves to undermine honest rational debate.

Example: After Will said that we should put more money into health and education, Warren responded by saying that he was surprised that Will hates our country so much that he wants to leave it defenceless by cutting military spending.

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Date: 4/05/2014 19:26:29
From: diddly-squat
ID: 526978
Subject: re: Sending and receiving sexually explicit messages

From reading this thread it’s fairly obvious to me that there aren’t too many of you that have teenage children.

The whole sexting thing is a massive issue, not so much that is is an example of ‘child porn’ (in the traditional definition of the term) but the real problem is there being an inherent misunderstanding of the damage images like this can have on their adult lives. There is also the problem of ex boyfriends or girlfriends using the images in acts of revenge.

Applications like snapchat scare the absolute crap out of me…

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Date: 4/05/2014 19:29:32
From: ChrispenEvan
ID: 526979
Subject: re: Sending and receiving sexually explicit messages

i agree diddly and i don’t have any kids.

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Date: 4/05/2014 19:34:02
From: wookiemeister
ID: 526981
Subject: re: Sending and receiving sexually explicit messages

poikilotherm said:


Michael V said:

wookiemeister said:

this is management think


What?

It’s Wak World remember…


care to make any comment on SV40 and the polio vaccine?

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Date: 4/05/2014 19:36:17
From: Michael V
ID: 526982
Subject: re: Sending and receiving sexually explicit messages

wookiemeister said:


poikilotherm said:

Michael V said:

What?

It’s Wak World remember…


care to make any comment on SV40 and the polio vaccine?

Kindly put this stuff in another thread, rather than trashing this one, thanks. I’ve been responding to other post of yours that change the OP’s discussion in chat.

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Date: 4/05/2014 19:36:18
From: wookiemeister
ID: 526983
Subject: re: Sending and receiving sexually explicit messages

ChrispenEvan said:


this is management think

strawman logical fallacy.

strawman
You misrepresented someone’s argument to make it easier to attack.

By exaggerating, misrepresenting, or just completely fabricating someone’s argument, it’s much easier to present your own position as being reasonable, but this kind of dishonesty serves to undermine honest rational debate.

Example: After Will said that we should put more money into health and education, Warren responded by saying that he was surprised that Will hates our country so much that he wants to leave it defenceless by cutting military spending.


it is the natural outcome

how about managing the child molesters first?

the person that killed Daniel morcombe had already attacked victims well before being convicted for killing Daniel

lets manage the problem constructively before we bring in any more laws that don’t actually “protect” anyone

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Date: 4/05/2014 19:38:12
From: wookiemeister
ID: 526984
Subject: re: Sending and receiving sexually explicit messages

Michael V said:


wookiemeister said:

poikilotherm said:

It’s Wak World remember…


care to make any comment on SV40 and the polio vaccine?

Kindly put this stuff in another thread, rather than trashing this one, thanks. I’ve been responding to other post of yours that change the OP’s discussion in chat.

then tell that person to concentrate on the issue instead of concentrating on me personally

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Date: 4/05/2014 19:38:13
From: wookiemeister
ID: 526985
Subject: re: Sending and receiving sexually explicit messages

Michael V said:


wookiemeister said:

poikilotherm said:

It’s Wak World remember…


care to make any comment on SV40 and the polio vaccine?

Kindly put this stuff in another thread, rather than trashing this one, thanks. I’ve been responding to other post of yours that change the OP’s discussion in chat.

then tell that person to concentrate on the issue instead of concentrating on me personally

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Date: 4/05/2014 19:39:03
From: wookiemeister
ID: 526986
Subject: re: Sending and receiving sexually explicit messages

we are getting all worked up about text when you’ve got people running around killing kids and molesting them scot free

funny old world ain’t it?

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Date: 4/05/2014 19:39:20
From: ChrispenEvan
ID: 526987
Subject: re: Sending and receiving sexually explicit messages

try to get a cogent argument together wookie and we might discuss it. but you are hopeless at keeping on track, especially when you’ve been backed into a corner. you really need to work on that.

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Date: 4/05/2014 19:40:30
From: ChrispenEvan
ID: 526988
Subject: re: Sending and receiving sexually explicit messages

then tell that person to concentrate on the issue instead of concentrating on me personally

wow, i thought showing the flaws in your argument was concentrating on the issue.

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Date: 4/05/2014 19:44:59
From: Witty Rejoinder
ID: 526990
Subject: re: Sending and receiving sexually explicit messages

wookiemeister said:


we are getting all worked up about text when you’ve got people running around killing kids and molesting them scot free

funny old world ain’t it?


Are you suggesting that we can’t do both at the same time? Yes it is a funny old world you live in.

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Date: 4/05/2014 19:46:55
From: ChrispenEvan
ID: 526991
Subject: re: Sending and receiving sexually explicit messages

wookie likes to be the hero.

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Date: 4/05/2014 19:50:55
From: wookiemeister
ID: 526993
Subject: re: Sending and receiving sexually explicit messages

Witty Rejoinder said:


wookiemeister said:

we are getting all worked up about text when you’ve got people running around killing kids and molesting them scot free

funny old world ain’t it?


Are you suggesting that we can’t do both at the same time? Yes it is a funny old world you live in.


we can’t even keep them locked up, exactly how do you propose anything worthwhile will ever come from yet another bullshit law?

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Date: 4/05/2014 19:51:21
From: wookiemeister
ID: 526994
Subject: re: Sending and receiving sexually explicit messages

ChrispenEvan said:


wookie likes to be the hero.

no I’m saying the whole thing stinks of bullshit

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Date: 4/05/2014 19:53:11
From: Witty Rejoinder
ID: 526996
Subject: re: Sending and receiving sexually explicit messages

wookiemeister said:

we can’t even keep them locked up, exactly how do you propose anything worthwhile will ever come from yet another bullshit law?

So you think nothing should be done about teens texting until paedophiles receive life sentences for their crimes?

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Date: 4/05/2014 19:53:14
From: ChrispenEvan
ID: 526997
Subject: re: Sending and receiving sexually explicit messages

nah, you want to be the hero. always the one to save the day. nobody else as competent as you.

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Date: 4/05/2014 19:55:08
From: wookiemeister
ID: 526998
Subject: re: Sending and receiving sexually explicit messages

Witty Rejoinder said:


wookiemeister said:

we can’t even keep them locked up, exactly how do you propose anything worthwhile will ever come from yet another bullshit law?

So you think nothing should be done about teens texting until paedophiles receive life sentences for their crimes?


to be honest it would be a first step

as I said – management think

the only thing management understands is paperwork and easy fixes for problems they have created

its easier to ban sexting than it is keeping violent and dangerous off the streets

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Date: 4/05/2014 19:55:11
From: wookiemeister
ID: 526999
Subject: re: Sending and receiving sexually explicit messages

Witty Rejoinder said:


wookiemeister said:

we can’t even keep them locked up, exactly how do you propose anything worthwhile will ever come from yet another bullshit law?

So you think nothing should be done about teens texting until paedophiles receive life sentences for their crimes?


to be honest it would be a first step

as I said – management think

the only thing management understands is paperwork and easy fixes for problems they have created

its easier to ban sexting than it is keeping violent and dangerous off the streets

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Date: 4/05/2014 19:56:37
From: ChrispenEvan
ID: 527000
Subject: re: Sending and receiving sexually explicit messages

we can’t even keep them locked up, exactly how do you propose anything worthwhile will ever come from yet another bullshit law?

black-or-white
You presented two alternative states as the only possibilities, when in fact more possibilities exist.

Also known as the false dilemma, this insidious tactic has the appearance of forming a logical argument, but under closer scrutiny it becomes evident that there are more possibilities than the either/or choice that is presented. Binary, black-or-white thinking doesn’t allow for the many different variables, conditions, and contexts in which there would exist more than just the two possibilities put forth. It frames the argument misleadingly and obscures rational, honest debate.

Example: Whilst rallying support for his plan to fundamentally undermine citizens’ rights, the Supreme Leader told the people they were either on his side, or they were on the side of the enemy.

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Date: 4/05/2014 19:57:34
From: wookiemeister
ID: 527001
Subject: re: Sending and receiving sexually explicit messages

ChrispenEvan said:


nah, you want to be the hero. always the one to save the day. nobody else as competent as you.

don’t be angry

its start to make sense isn’t it?

how come sexting is so important when we can’t keep a lid on all the nutters running around killing / molesting kids?

lets tackle the real problems not problems with SMS

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Date: 4/05/2014 19:57:39
From: ChrispenEvan
ID: 527002
Subject: re: Sending and receiving sexually explicit messages

a few more to go wookie but you’re doing a sterling job so far.

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Date: 4/05/2014 19:58:25
From: ChrispenEvan
ID: 527003
Subject: re: Sending and receiving sexually explicit messages

i’m not angry. you can tell cos i’m not double posting.

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Date: 4/05/2014 19:59:12
From: wookiemeister
ID: 527004
Subject: re: Sending and receiving sexually explicit messages

ChrispenEvan said:


we can’t even keep them locked up, exactly how do you propose anything worthwhile will ever come from yet another bullshit law?

black-or-white
You presented two alternative states as the only possibilities, when in fact more possibilities exist.

Also known as the false dilemma, this insidious tactic has the appearance of forming a logical argument, but under closer scrutiny it becomes evident that there are more possibilities than the either/or choice that is presented. Binary, black-or-white thinking doesn’t allow for the many different variables, conditions, and contexts in which there would exist more than just the two possibilities put forth. It frames the argument misleadingly and obscures rational, honest debate.

Example: Whilst rallying support for his plan to fundamentally undermine citizens’ rights, the Supreme Leader told the people they were either on his side, or they were on the side of the enemy.


it won’t be too long after the new texting laws and some kids will be killed or molested and guess what – the person has already done it multiple times and gotten away with it in court

have all the law you won’t it won’t save you

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Date: 4/05/2014 20:00:15
From: wookiemeister
ID: 527005
Subject: re: Sending and receiving sexually explicit messages

wookiemeister said:


ChrispenEvan said:

we can’t even keep them locked up, exactly how do you propose anything worthwhile will ever come from yet another bullshit law?

black-or-white
You presented two alternative states as the only possibilities, when in fact more possibilities exist.

Also known as the false dilemma, this insidious tactic has the appearance of forming a logical argument, but under closer scrutiny it becomes evident that there are more possibilities than the either/or choice that is presented. Binary, black-or-white thinking doesn’t allow for the many different variables, conditions, and contexts in which there would exist more than just the two possibilities put forth. It frames the argument misleadingly and obscures rational, honest debate.

Example: Whilst rallying support for his plan to fundamentally undermine citizens’ rights, the Supreme Leader told the people they were either on his side, or they were on the side of the enemy.


it won’t be too long after the new texting laws and some kids will be killed or molested and guess what – the person has already done it multiple times and gotten away with it in court

have all the law you won’t it won’t save you


maybe you can contact the parents and tell them their logic is all wrong?

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Date: 4/05/2014 20:01:02
From: ChrispenEvan
ID: 527006
Subject: re: Sending and receiving sexually explicit messages

it won’t be too long after the new texting laws and some kids will be killed or molested and guess what – the person has already done it multiple times and gotten away with it in court

have all the law you won’t it won’t save you

hmmmm maybe the no true scotsman logical fallacy.

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Date: 4/05/2014 20:02:31
From: wookiemeister
ID: 527007
Subject: re: Sending and receiving sexually explicit messages

ChrispenEvan said:


it won’t be too long after the new texting laws and some kids will be killed or molested and guess what – the person has already done it multiple times and gotten away with it in court

have all the law you won’t it won’t save you

hmmmm maybe the no true scotsman logical fallacy.


I’m so glad we have all these laws because they protect us – paperwork wise

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Date: 4/05/2014 20:03:27
From: ChrispenEvan
ID: 527008
Subject: re: Sending and receiving sexually explicit messages

and you’ve probably committed this one too.

tu quoque
You avoided having to engage with criticism by turning it back on the accuser – you answered criticism with criticism.

Pronounced too-kwo-kwee. Literally translating as ‘you too’ this fallacy is also known as the appeal to hypocrisy. It is commonly employed as an effective red herring because it takes the heat off someone having to defend their argument, and instead shifts the focus back on to the person making the criticism.

Example: Nicole identified that Hannah had committed a logical fallacy, but instead of addressing the substance of her claim, Hannah accused Nicole of committing a fallacy earlier on in the conversation.

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Date: 4/05/2014 20:03:56
From: party_pants
ID: 527009
Subject: re: Sending and receiving sexually explicit messages

Did they survey adults too, to see if it is now a normal part of adult dating.

I’ve even had a knock-back via explicit text message.

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Date: 4/05/2014 20:10:46
From: poikilotherm
ID: 527011
Subject: re: Sending and receiving sexually explicit messages

party_pants said:


Did they survey adults too, to see if it is now a normal part of adult dating.

I’ve even had a knock-back via explicit text message.

Was there an odd placed mouse trap?

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Date: 4/05/2014 20:12:11
From: Witty Rejoinder
ID: 527012
Subject: re: Sending and receiving sexually explicit messages

wookiemeister said:

don’t be angry

its start to make sense isn’t it?

how come sexting is so important when we can’t keep a lid on all the nutters running around killing / molesting kids?

lets tackle the real problems not problems with SMS

Again you say it is one or the other. You really need to work on your debating style if you don’t want to be ridiculed.

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Date: 4/05/2014 20:14:59
From: wookiemeister
ID: 527014
Subject: re: Sending and receiving sexually explicit messages

Witty Rejoinder said:


wookiemeister said:

don’t be angry

its start to make sense isn’t it?

how come sexting is so important when we can’t keep a lid on all the nutters running around killing / molesting kids?

lets tackle the real problems not problems with SMS

Again you say it is one or the other. You really need to work on your debating style if you don’t want to be ridiculed.


I’m done with this

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Date: 4/05/2014 20:19:39
From: party_pants
ID: 527015
Subject: re: Sending and receiving sexually explicit messages

poikilotherm said:


party_pants said:

Did they survey adults too, to see if it is now a normal part of adult dating.

I’ve even had a knock-back via explicit text message.

Was there an odd placed mouse trap?

Not that I could see.

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Date: 4/05/2014 20:24:56
From: rumpole
ID: 527017
Subject: re: Sending and receiving sexually explicit messages

Maybe there should be made a phone for people under 18 that has only two functions; call home and receive call from home.

No camera, no sms messages, no internet browsing.
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Date: 4/05/2014 20:26:43
From: ChrispenEvan
ID: 527018
Subject: re: Sending and receiving sexually explicit messages

i have a phone like that. cost me $23.

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Date: 4/05/2014 20:28:45
From: party_pants
ID: 527019
Subject: re: Sending and receiving sexually explicit messages

My sister doesn’t let her kids have a mobile phone. If they want one they have to pay for it all themselves, phone, credit etc. Which means not till they are old enough to have a part-time job and some income.

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Date: 4/05/2014 21:03:00
From: PM 2Ring
ID: 527031
Subject: re: Sending and receiving sexually explicit messages

Bubblecar said:


>An example of conservative laws going too far violating young people’s rights

Isn’t it just the normal law prohibiting pornographic images of people under 18?

Yes, sexually explicit under-age images are covered by existing child pornography laws, but the situation for text-only sexting without embedded or attached images is not so clear, and it’s not easy to do searches on. I can’t find any references for text-only sexting being prosecuted in Australia, but who knows what they do in the US Bible Belt…

However, the article linked in the OP doesn’t recommend tightening the existing laws: it suggests that we might consider debating the possibility of relaxing the laws a little so that kids who get into a bit of innocent sexting with each other aren’t classed as child pornographers.

From the article:


Lead researcher Professor Anne Mitchell, who has conducted the study since 1992, says for young people, sexting is just a part of their sexual relationship.

“Given that it’s against the law, I think we have thoroughly lost that battle for young people,” she said.

“It’s just a part of a sexual relationship, part of courtship, now.”

Professor Mitchell says she would not go as far as recommending that sending explicit photos and videos to people under the age of 18 should be decriminalised, but she does think it should be up for debate.

“Of course harm can come to young people if these texts are sent far and wide but we found very low rates of what we’d call cyber bullying,” she said.

“We’re suggesting that for most young people this behaviour is really unproblematic and just kept within their sexual relationship.”

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Date: 4/05/2014 21:16:31
From: PM 2Ring
ID: 527035
Subject: re: Sending and receiving sexually explicit messages

diddly-squat said:


The whole sexting thing is a massive issue, not so much that is is an example of ‘child porn’ (in the traditional definition of the term) but the real problem is there being an inherent misunderstanding of the damage images like this can have on their adult lives. There is also the problem of ex boyfriends or girlfriends using the images in acts of revenge.

I don’t have kids, but I do have 5 teenage nieces and nephews, so I think I appreciate your point, Diddly.

I agree that underage sexting can be problematic primarily because it puts young people into a vulnerable situation. But I think we need a more subtle tool to deal with teen-to-teen sexting than the blunt application of child porn laws. Of course, if a 3rd party gets a hold of such images & distributes them as child porn, they should certainly feel the full weight of the law.

As for the revenge thing, I suspect that the reality may not be a bad as it potentially could be (as the article linked in the OP suggests). If everybody in a kid’s social circle is sexting, then everyone is equally vulnerable, so you get a MAD situation.

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Date: 4/05/2014 22:19:13
From: transition
ID: 527050
Subject: re: Sending and receiving sexually explicit messages

Possibly it is that ‘age-appropriateness’ is diluted somewhat by the medium, ease of contact, familiarity minus the usual physical realities of relationship buildings might go circumvented, but then that could go the other way too and flirting is kept just that, nothing more.

Sixteen years of age kids are well on their way to taking some responsibility for their own social and private doings (dealing with and learning of the complexities of life), perhaps the more interesting question is of those of this age and their influence on much younger people, below sixteen.

I mean part of age-appropriateness is about being careful so as not to inflict (even incidently or accidently) whatever on those younger or less developed or developing at a different rate.

So really a better question might be of the extent age-appropriateness is distorted by technology.

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Date: 7/05/2014 06:41:44
From: fresnel_chick
ID: 527908
Subject: re: Sending and receiving sexually explicit messages

CrazyNeutrino said:


Sending and receiving sexually explicit messages a normal part of teenage relationships, survey finds

A survey of Australian high school students has found that sending and receiving sexually explicit images and messages is a normal part of most teenage relationships.

La Trobe university researchers interviewed more than 2,000 16 to 18-year-old students across the country as part of a study commissioned by the Federal Government.

more…

hey, wait… so i was a normal teen after all?!

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Date: 7/05/2014 07:09:37
From: Dropbear
ID: 527910
Subject: re: Sending and receiving sexually explicit messages

fresnel_chick said:


CrazyNeutrino said:

Sending and receiving sexually explicit messages a normal part of teenage relationships, survey finds

A survey of Australian high school students has found that sending and receiving sexually explicit images and messages is a normal part of most teenage relationships.

La Trobe university researchers interviewed more than 2,000 16 to 18-year-old students across the country as part of a study commissioned by the Federal Government.

more…

hey, wait… so i was a normal teen after all?!

Yeh and personally I am glad you were…

Wait what?

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Date: 7/05/2014 08:45:16
From: fresnel_chick
ID: 527927
Subject: re: Sending and receiving sexually explicit messages

Dropbear said:


fresnel_chick said:

CrazyNeutrino said:

Sending and receiving sexually explicit messages a normal part of teenage relationships, survey finds

A survey of Australian high school students has found that sending and receiving sexually explicit images and messages is a normal part of most teenage relationships.

La Trobe university researchers interviewed more than 2,000 16 to 18-year-old students across the country as part of a study commissioned by the Federal Government.

more…

hey, wait… so i was a normal teen after all?!

Yeh and personally I am glad you were…

Wait what?

Bahahahaha!

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