I just rang roughy to check on his wellbeing.
He is alive and well but still having problems getting his computer going again, he also has bigger problems dealing with an aged MIL and finding another reliable ute. He said the break from the internet has helped him catch up on many neglected tasks.
He said he will be back again,sometime soon.
PS He said to tell buffy to pass on his thanks to all those people in the gardening forum that remembered his birthday.
“it is nice that someone remembers that about you”